I use to coil into my shell and hide from people because I was too shy to relate with people. It was so bad that I thought I irritated people and that people wouldn’t want to even see me. I felt everyone was better than me. I had a very bad self esteem and I looked down on me.
I’m sharing this with you because I’m no longer that person.
I came out of that dungeon when I started focusing on the right things – the most important things.
You see, I only saw my flaws and I tied my identity to them. I identified myself as the girl who couldn’t do that …. who wasn’t that …
I can tell you for sure that you too can build a good self esteem if you stop focusing on the things that are not significant. Yes! There are things that are not significant because they do not determine your destiny and they do not define you- Insignificant Insecurities .
So what do you focus on? Are they significant? Do they define you? Is that all you are worth? If not, then stop focusing on them and build the right self esteem. Because building the right self esteem will help you live a fulfilled and purposeful life. It helps you become your best self and achieve all you can achieve.
